salam talyplar $eyle mesele yuze çykdy pikiriñizi aydaysañyz bilyänler jogap bersin Durmu$da $eyle zatlar kän gabat gelyär mesele talak hakynda,yagny nikaly är-ayal,zenan ma$gala talagny alman ayrylandan soñ,zenan ma$ga-la ba$ga äre baranda $oñ nikasy durs bolarmy?delil gerek.
Nika
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kary
15 years ago
- talak sozi arap sozi bolup biziñ turkmenlermiz $u vagta çenli ulanyp gelyar,yone $erigat talagy gaty berk yagdayda ve hovyply yagdayda gorkezyar yanekey du$undireyin nikañy pozmak gitmäge rugsat bermek magnasy, yagny sen ayalyña 3 kere talak diyseñ 1 bilen nikañ pozulyar 2 bilen är ayallyk duzginiñi uitiryañ .bu hakda giñi$leyin yazaryn.
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muslimah
15 years ago
- salam
elbetde shol ayal onki arinden talak alman yene tazeden durmusha chyksa,ol ayal zyna eden yalydyr,yone barde eger ol ayalyn ari talak berjekdal diyen bolsa ol ayalam ari bilen yashasy gelmese "kula"diyen bir zat bar ayallaryn beryan talagy,yone ol kulany ayal almak uchin seryoznyy osnowaniye gerek,yone yere bolanok,hazir dalil tapyp bilemok,gozleshdireyin tapsam barik goyjak.
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Abdul Hakim
15 years ago
- Kary ayal arina talak bareb bilyormi?
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kary
15 years ago
- yok berip bilmeyar
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muslimah
15 years ago
- kary-ayal arinden ayrylyp bilyar onada khula diyilyar,meselem ari ichyan ya narkoman bolanda we ol talaq bermese ol ayalyn name haky yokmy?musulmanchylykda elbertde arinem we ayalynam haky bardyr,eger ayalyn ari bilen yashasy gelmese we ona seryoznyy osnowaniyesi bolsa onda ayal shol durmusha chykan wagty alan galynyny(mahr)arine yzyna bermeli bolyar,we shol khula imam tarapyndan chozulyar,ine ashakda inlis dilnde bolsada fatwa goyyan:
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muslimah
15 years ago
- Khula’: definition and how it is done
What is khula and what is the correct procedure? If the husband does not want to divorce the wife, can the divorce still happen? What about in societies like America, where women who don’t like their husbands (in some case, because the husbands are religious). The women think that they have the freedom that if they don’t like the men, they can divorce them.
Praise be to Allaah.
Khula’ means the separation of the wife in return for a payment; the husband takes the payment and lets his wife go, whether this payment is the mahr which he gave to her, or more or less than that.
The basic principle concerning this is the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And it is not lawful for you (men) to take back (from your wives) any of your Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) which you have given them, except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allaah (e.g. to deal with each other on a fair basis). Then if you fear that they would not be able to keep the limits ordained by Allaah, then there is no sin on either of them if she gives back (the Mahr or a part of it) for her Al-Khul‘ (divorce)”
[al-Baqarah 2:229]
The evidence for that from the Sunnah is that the wife of Thaabit ibn Qays ibn Shammaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, I do not find any fault with Thaabit ibn Qays in his character or his religious commitment, but I do not want to commit any act of kufr after becoming a Muslim.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to her, “Will you give back his garden?” Because he had given her a garden as her mahr. She said, “Yes.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Thaabit: “Take back your garden, and divorce her.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5273).
From this case the scholars understood that if a woman cannot stay with her husband, then the judge should ask him to divorce her by khula’; indeed he should order him to do so.
With regard to the way in which it is done, the husband should take his payment or they should agree upon it, then he should say to her “faaraqtuki” (I separate from you) or “khaala’tuki (I let you go), or other such words.
Talaaq (i.e., divorce) is the right of the husband, and does not take place unless it is done by him, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Talaaq is the right of the one who seizes the leg (i.e., consummates the marriage)” i.e., the husband. (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 2081; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 2041).
Hence the scholars said that whoever is forced to divorce his wife by talaaq wrongfully, and divorces her under pressure, then his divorce is not valid. See al-Mughni, 10/352.
With regard to what you mention, that a woman in your country might arrange her own divorce through the man-made laws, if this is for a reason for which it is permissible to seek a divorce, such as disliking her husband, not being able to stay with him or disliking him because of his immoral ways and indulgence in haraam actions, etc., there is nothing wrong with her seeking divorce, but in this case she should divorce him by khula’ and return to him the mahr that he gave to her.
But if she is seeking divorce for no reason, then that is not permissible and the court ruling on divorce in this case does not count for anything in terms of sharee’ah. The woman still remains the wife of the man. This gives rise to a new problem, which is that this woman is regarded as a divorcee in the eyes of the (man-made) law, and can re-marry after her ‘iddah ends, but in fact she is still a wife and not a divorcee.
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked about a similar matter and said:
Now we have a problem. The fact that she is still married to him means that she cannot marry anyone else, but according to the court ruling she is apparently divorced from him, and when her ‘iddah ends she can re-marry. I think that the only way out of this problem is that good and righteous people should get involved in this matter, to bring about reconciliation between the man and his wife. Otherwise she has to give him some payment, so that it will be a proper shar’i khula’.
Liqa’ al-baab al-Maftooh by Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaymeen, no. 54; 3/174.
Islam Q&A http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/26247/khula
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kary
15 years ago
- Ayal ayrlyp biler yone ayal ärine men senden bo$ talak diyip bilmez talagy diñe äri berip biler
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muslimah
15 years ago
- menem ayal arine talaq diyip biler diyip yokarda hich yerde yazamok.barde boshanma barada gurrun gidya menem ayal boshanyp bilyandigine dalil getirdim,boshonmanyn iki gornushi bar
1.talaq(ar ayala)
2.khula(ayal are)
wassalam
Bayram-Jm 15 years ago- kary! dogrymy aýtsam "talak" diýen söze düshünmedim. Biziñ dialekitde beýle söz ýok.